Writing a mother of the bride speech can either be something very easy and long-waited for you or it can be the greatest headache ever. But what are the causes of such headaches, since it is all about your daughter? The problem is not about your daughter, neither it is about the relationship you have with her. The only really problematic situation is that many times, when writing any wedding speech, we don’t really know how to do it, we are confused on many aspects. And then, even if we know how one can write it, it’s still a huge issue of being satisfied with its quality or not, being sure about expressing all of what you wanted and things like that.
This article is all about simplifying the bride’s mother speech for everyone. We now want to present it in a real, but easy to understand way, making sure that as soon as you have finished reading this, you will be able to simply write your own speech.
The thoughts, the time before the speech
Before the speech, there are weeks and months standing ahead of you, in which you can simply prepare all aspects of the speech. In this time, you will have a lot of bright ideas, all on how to tell the perfect speech. What usually happens, is that you have a real overflow of ideas, thus resulting in a chaos that is present in your brain. This is not really helpful and it will only take your ideas and time away, causing you to act stressed and have a lot of inside frustration that can’t even seem to find a solution.
Just stand up and say no to these things from within! All you need to do is a little bit of organizing and then you don’t have an overflow anymore. The problem we often face as people is that we like to make everything sound very complicated, while they are all very simple things that can easily be achieved by anyone. The truth is that you only need some paper, a pen and making some notes about your ideas.
Then, the paper will probably contain a lot of duplicate ideas. These duplicate ideas are then to be eliminated one by one, because such ideas are destructive and they bring chaos. The simpler the notes are, the easier for you to write the final version of the mother of the bride speech. More