Mother of the Bride Speech Tips and Ideas

Writing a mother of the bride speech can either be something very easy and long-waited for you or it can be the greatest headache ever. But what are the causes of such headaches, since it is all about your daughter? The problem is not about your daughter, neither it is about the relationship you have with her. The only really problematic situation is that many times, when writing any wedding speech, we don’t really know how to do it, we are confused on many aspects. And then, even if we know how one can write it, it’s still a huge issue of being satisfied with its quality or not, being sure about expressing all of what you wanted and things like that.

This article is all about simplifying the bride’s mother speech for everyone. We now want to present it in a real, but easy to understand way, making sure that as soon as you have finished reading this, you will be able to simply write your own speech.

The thoughts, the time before the speech

Before the speech, there are weeks and months standing ahead of you, in which you can simply prepare all aspects of the speech. In this time, you will have a lot of bright ideas, all on how to tell the perfect speech. What usually happens, is that you have a real overflow of ideas, thus resulting in a chaos that is present in your brain. This is not really helpful and it will only take your ideas and time away, causing you to act stressed and have a lot of inside frustration that can’t even seem to find a solution.

wedding toastJust stand up and say no to these things from within! All you need to do is a little bit of organizing and then you don’t have an overflow anymore. The problem we often face as people is that we like to make everything sound very complicated, while they are all very simple things that can easily be achieved by anyone. The truth is that you only need some paper, a pen and making some notes about your ideas.

Then, the paper will probably contain a lot of duplicate ideas. These duplicate ideas are then to be eliminated one by one, because such ideas are destructive and they bring chaos. The simpler the notes are, the easier for you to write the final version of the mother of the bride speech. More

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Advice in writing the mother of the bride speech in 2014

The most important day in one’s life among other important events that happen is the day of a bride’s wedding. In this day everything has to be great and no one should make her feel like otherwise, from the cake, up to the guests who are coming, to her dress and to the reception afterwards and up to the speeches that are being held by different members of the family or by friends, everything must be in perfect order and in place.

As a mother, when you are entrusted with the opportunity of holding a mother of the bride speech, you should make it the brightest day of your daughter. So start to use your charisma, and your creativity to make one of the greatest mother of the bride wedding speeches. You can even take a pen and write down some of the advices that will come in real handy to use and that will provide for the speech.

The first advice to follow is to think about what you are going to write about and make a plan about it. Don’t make your information boring by writing a long description, just write only what is essential, and captivating. You can also choose in which manner to present it, you can write it as a poem with a funny note or you can use some story description by introducing some quotes that are for you family like a life guidance, intimate and private moments will help and will be very touching.

Don’t copy anything! Be as creative as you can be, use your imagination but also your skills into achieving a unique and yet natural mother of the bride speech. And when it comes to the emotional part, be a wise mother who shows support and understanding, because in many occasions acceptance will make a huge difference. Don’t let other feelings to affect this day, even if in you there are thoughts that might be saying that this wedding should have been delayed or that the person standing next to your daughter is not so suitable for her. More

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Mother of the Bride Speech

bride's parents wedding speechMothers are great in wedding speeches, but it’s not always too easy to give a mother of the bride speech to speak to people’s hearts. This happens because although you might have amazing ideas and although you might speak from the deepest corners of your heart, you might simply miss that one special element in your speech which is the part where people (your guests as well as your family members) feel touched. Yes, I am talking about triggering positive emotions and/or positive memories, just by speaking.

If you are now asking “okay, so what do I do?” then you are interested and you are on the right track! You will happily find out that the small things will turn your mother of the bride speech into an amazing one, as you won’t need any special talent or extra knowledge to become simply great with your speech. Let’s now talk about different simple, but important things to remember, especially if you want people to feel touched and to make them feel great about coming to your daughter’s wedding!

Honestly speaking mothers are respected

Although some people have no idea, your family members and some of the guests have already found out the realities about your relationship with your daughter as well as your relationship with the groom. So, it’s very important to speak from an honest heart. You are about to give your mother of the bride speech and you have just realized that you have made some terrible mistakes in the past or in the present, regretting some of the things you have done? If that is your case, then what you should do is quite simple. You can begin your speech – after the formal introduction of course – saying that you publicly apologize for the things you have done against your daughter (and/or other people in case) and that you don’t want to repeat those mistakes again and that you have decided to be there for your daughter no matter what happens from now on. More

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Mother of the Bride Wedding Speech

bride's mother speechesSome people might ask themselves – so what could wisdom mean, if we are thinking about a wedding speech? The key idea and the key surprise-element we are focusing on here is how you can be wise and amazing within your mother of the bride wedding speech. As a mother, you surely want to make your daughter feel special and keep on visiting you frequently after the wedding and the honeymoon isn’t it? In order to achieve that, you can’t be the ordinary mother or the average mother to speak. You should be armed with surprises, with speech elements that are unexpected yet great.

One of my deepest thoughts in life is that wisdom can only come with the perfect combination of knowledge and experience. However, if we manage to spice that up with some creativity, then we can righteously say that we have some wisdom within! So, the main idea is that we will know focus on these three important elements mentioned hereinabove.

The knowledge you need

Since this is not school – it’s rather the school of life – the knowledge you are going to need for a great mother of the bride wedding speech is simple to obtain, but you need to know where to get it from. I recommend, before anything else, that you read as many speech templates, speech tips as possible. Where to read them? Online, I would say. However, it might happen that you find them in magazines, older books or any similar sources around. More

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Autumn Bride’s Mother Speech

Although it doesn’t always happen like this, a lot of weddings can occur in the autumn season. I don’t say people don’t organize winter weddings – but they are a bit rare! Anyways, the main idea in having an autumn bride’s mother speech is that you can be inspired from the season itself, by nature and I will now explain how and why it can be a special event for you and your family.

We all know that autumn weddings are more special, thanks to the changes occurring in nature every single autumn. The tree leafs that are changing their colors and the way nature signals everybody, telling us something like ‘hey guys, it’s autumn already’ is purely amazing.

Just to point out one of the many ideas how a bride’s mother speech could use the season itself to get some inspiration, let us imagine having the following paragraph included in the correct section within your speech:

“As I was saying, it’s amazing to see true love to the depths that Julie and Robert were able to reach. The looks in their eyes and their smiles confess everything. I was just thinking about how wonderful it is to have this wedding in this month. Autumn is already in its full grace. I can already picture the warmth, the love and the infinite happiness the newlyweds are soon going to feel, when Christmas time is approaching. Isn’t it true? Just look at them and try to imagine how they will have their first Christmas tree decorated and how they will look at it while drinking a hot tea – isn’t it amazing?” More

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